‘Identity’ is a three week course exploring who we are in Christ. Come and think about our identity, what it is now, what it ought to be and what God wants to transform us into. The course is open to everyone whatever their age or experience, and whether they would call themselves Christians or not.
The course will run on Tuesday evenings on 9th, 16th and 23rd November from 7.30pm to 9.00pm. You can join the course in person at Holy Trinity, Richmond, or online via Zoom.
Click here to sign up. You can change whether you would like to be in person or online during the course, but it would be helpful for Holy Trinity to know which you would prefer to begin the course.
St Mary’s, Barnes, Youth Group Supports the Annual Glass Door Sleepout
St Mary’s, Barnes ,Youth Worker, Julie Smith, writes:
The annual Glassdoor Sleepout took place on Friday, 1st October with a reduced number of campers at the main Duke of York Square site following covid, which gave the opportunity for volunteers to set up satellite camps such as the little gathering of teens at the church. We started the evening with a candlelit compline in the Langton Chapel led by Revd James, with a reading from Charlie. It was a contemplative and calming atmosphere which was much appreciated by us all as we considered the evening ahead. Thank you to Wendy for her help with organising the practicalities for it. Having moved outside we settled down by our tent. It was certainly quite surreal to be sitting on cardboard outside the church while lots of people were walking the red carpet into the neighbouring Olympic Cinema for the premiere weekend of the new Bond film.
Being out in the cold and the dark while people went about their lives gave us a chance to think about what it truly means to be homeless. For most of us the ending of nearly all the pandemic restrictions has been a joyous time allowing us to reunite with family and friends, take holidays and return to work. In short, we are experiencing some normality for the first time in 18months. Sadly, for some, however, it brings the increased potential for homelessness as specific support packages are coming to an end. It could be a young person who has recently left the care system, terrified and alone. It could be a woman fleeing an abusive partner, physically bruised and mentally shattered. It could be someone who lost their job in the pandemic and can no longer afford the rent, humiliated and defeated. It could be a refugee recently arrived in the UK who is struggling to navigate the complex welfare system, confused and homesick. The homeless have many faces and the truth is that many of the people who end up on the streets are not that different from ourselves.
In just a couple of hours we could begin to comprehend the physical discomforts of rough sleeping, however, we were only a few steps away from running water, flushing toilets, electric lights, and an endless supply of hot chocolate, so we were never going to experience the true vulnerabilities of the homeless. After a night spent partly outside, and in the early hours of the morning, on the hard floors inside the church where we had a roof over our heads, we do feel a greater compassion for the vulnerability of rough sleepers. Rough sleeping is a dangerous and isolating experience. People sleeping rough are more likely to be victims of crime and violence. Women are particularly vulnerable with nearly 1 in 4 having been sexually assaulted while on the streets. Additionally, many rough sleepers develop addictions with drugs or alcohol, or mental health issues. In 2019, the average age for a rough sleeper at death was just 44 years for men and 42 years for women.
Glassdoor are an amazing charity and the organisation makes a huge difference to the homeless providing them with practical support and hope. It was a privilege for us in BYG to show our support. Several people passing by on Friday night stopped to talk to us and we hope that we have helped to spread awareness and raised some funds.
On Monday 4th October there was a Zoom meeting with volunteer co-ordinators where GlassDoor chief executive Lucy Horitz told us that the start of the season in Richmond is going to be delayed. We were very cheered last summer when government principles were published allowing for rotating night shelters to take place this winter, where there is need in a local area. Despite this and despite stringent planned safety measures, local public health teams have not been supportive of night shelters reopening in their boroughs. GlassDoor trustees have been weighing up the health, reputational and legal risks of opening and will make a final decision on Monday 11 October. In all likelihood, GlassDoor will need to start the shelters on a staggered basis, with Kensington & Chelsea and Wandsworth opening in November and others hopefully opening after Christmas. To meet guest need it is important that there is one circuit operating north of the river and one south, with Wandsworth being more suitable over Richmond as many guests travel from Lambeth. This staggered start will provide an opportunity to evaluate data on demand for the shelters, as well as their success and safety.
This is, of course, hugely disappointing for everyone here in Richmond, but it is not something that we can change. For GlassDoor these are hugely important decisions and much is at stake. Volunteers and churches might want to write to their local MP/the media etc, but GlassDoor asks us not to do that right now. At present they’re working hard to manage the relationships with local authorities and although grateful for the offer, they urge people to hold off from doing so at present.
Regardless of what happens with church night shelters, GlassDoor will continue with their 55-bed hostel at Paddington from mid-November to early May, as well as the casework support they put in place to help people into stable employment and accommodation. And the Vineyard Centre will be up and running with daytime support, as well as other local initiatives.
How do questions about identity, sexuality, relationships and marriage fit within the bigger picture of the good news of Jesus Christ? What does it mean to live in love and faith together as a Church?
The Living in Love and Faith project is the Church of England’s national process asking individuals, parishes, deaneries and communities to reflect on matters related to sexuality, gender and relationships.
The Deanery is running the Living in Love and Faith course which aims to help us think more deeply about what it means to be human and about how to live in love and faith. This five week course covers the following topics and is available via Zoom or in person at St Mary Magdalene, Church Walk, Richmond:
Session 1Learning Together What does it mean to learn together as followers of Jesus Christ?
2:30 – 4pm, Sunday 24th October at St Mary Magdalene, Richmond. 7:30 – 9pm, Wednesday 27th October via Zoom
Session 2Identity How does our identity in Christ relate to sex and gender?
2:30 – 4pm, Sunday 31st October at St Mary Magdalene, Richmond. 7:30 – 9pm, Wednesday 3rd November via Zoom
Session 3Relationships What kinds of relationships does God call us to?
2:30 – 4pm, Sunday 7th November at St Mary Magdalene, Richmond. 7:30 – 9pm, Wednesday 10th November via Zoom
Session 4Sex Where do our bodies and sex fit in to all of this?
2:30 – 4pm, Sunday 14th November at St Mary Magdalene, Richmond. 7:30 – 9pm, Wednesday 17th November via Zoom
Session 5Life together How do diversity and difference affect our life together as a church?
2:30 – 4pm, Sunday 21st November at St Mary Magdalene, Richmond. 7:30 – 9pm, Wednesday 24th November via Zoom
You can mix and match between Zoom and in-person sessions. Please email deanerysynod@gmail.com for the Zoom link but there’s no need to book ahead for the in-person sessions.
Dr Martin Hodson and Revd Margot Hodson from the John Ray Initiative in Oxford (www.jri.org.uk) shared their expertise and learning through a day of free workshops, lectures and hands-on experiences to help us learn more about conservation and how we might play our part to reverse the negative impact of climate change on our environment and on those least able to cope. There were activities for adults and children.
Welcome to Ben and Cameron who are this year’s organ scholars at St Michael and All Angels, Barnes. Both boys are pupils at St Paul’s School and have been studying the organ with Philip Berg, Master of the Music at The Queen’s Chapel of the Savoy. Read their stories below.
Richmond Inter Faith Forum invites people from Richmond, Kingston, Hounslow, Wandsworth, Merton and neighbouring areas, from every religion or belief background – including the non-religious – to join them for “Young Voices from Israel-Palestine” on Monday 4th October at 7pm.
This rare opportunity to hear and interact directly with young people in the region from Palestinian and Israeli backgrounds will be led by “Solutions not Sides”, a charity aiming to tackle antisemitism, anti-Muslim prejudice and polarisation around the issue of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict in the UK.
Each summer the Parish of Mortlake with East Sheen team ministry hold a Holiday at Home week. Local residents of Barnes, Mortlake and East Sheen who are unable to get away for a holiday or would like more company during the summer are invited to join in either for a day or two or for the whole week.
Last year’s Holiday at Home was a little different due to the pandemic but this year it was back to normal with a cruise ship theme. On Monday the ship docked in Venice and there was Italian food and music. On Tuesday it was France and Greece on Wednesday. Dry land on Thursday with a trip to Richmond Park before finishing on a Desert Island on Friday. With quizzes, singalongs, exercises, marvellous food a tough jigsaw and a reading of James and the Giant Peach, there was plenty to keep everyone busy and in need of a rest at the end of the week!
space2grieve is a team of highly trained Bereavement Specialists offering free, personal, confidential bereavement support for adults, children, young people & families who live in the Borough of Richmond Upon Thames. They offer free expert bereavement support to anyone struggling after a bereavement by any means, at any time.